If You Don’t Know How to “Inspire Commitment”… then you may never be “secure”!

Dear Lovely Friend and Special Soul…

It’s Renee here from TheFeminineWoman.com

If you do not have commitment from your man, then you are bound to have an unsecure, unfulfilling, and unhappy relationship.

If you do not inspire your man to commit to you at the deepest level, then you are playing with a time bomb that is ticking down, eventually annihilating your relationship, your self esteem and your life altogether.

This lack of commitment in your relationship will also affect the rest of your life. You will have little to no confidence in your day to day life, you will lose self esteem, and you will attract other negative & insecure people into your life. People will see you as less, and other women will look down upon your relationship and give judgments to your character.

As we speak right now, there are hundreds of women in the world in committed loving and passionate relationships, getting married, being proposed to and having the time of their lives. However I know on the other side of the coin, there are thousands and thousands of women who are still feeling empty inside, lonely and very unfulfilled in their relationship.

Maybe you just don’t know why he hasn’t called you back…

Maybe you don’t know how much longer this “girlfriend” status and label will stick to you for.

Maybe you are just sick and tired of waiting… waiting for something to happen… but it never does. The relationship seems to be stuck… at a point where you don’t feel secure, and you don’t know what to do…

Here’s the thing, I’m sick of seeing women losing out in their relationship and feeling empty, lonely and unfulfilled… Never able to settle down and have the lifelong commitment that I know we all want!

And sometimes the worse thing is that you try different things, but nothing seems to work. In fact, they seemed to push him further and further away, and make the relationship even less stable.

So I really want to help you obtain the deep commitment in your relationship that you deserve. I know what it feels like to be in a relationship where you don’t know what the future holds, and it scares you. I think most of us women have felt that at some stage in our lives.

But also, I know what it feels like to have absolute certainty and security in an intimate relationship, so much so that there’s a sense of warmth that engulfs you and takes you over. And there’s really nothing quite like it.

Just imagine for a second, the joy, the freedom and the security in your life and in your relationship, knowing that it’s heading exactly where you want it to go. That’s what I want you to feel. That’s what I want you to manifest in your own life.

I don’t know where you are in your relationship right now. Maybe you’ve just gone on your third date, or maybe fifth date. Maybe you guys have been hanging out for a while now, but nothing serious has happened.

Maybe you guys have been “seriously” dating for 6 months, and you would like things to be taken to the next level.

Or perhaps you guys have been “together” for many years, but he still hasn’t popped the question… what’s going on there? Where is this relationship going?

You see, relationships can be tricky and confusing.

Why do some women easily get commitment from their men, yet for other women…(ie. You perhaps?) you can’t get anyone to call you back or take things to the next level?

The answer is all about understanding the commitment process, from a man’s perspective.

Have you ever heard of the kinds of story where the man never really committed to any women in his past, yet one day, he finds that one special girl who he instantly puts all his eggs in her basket?

This kind of story happens all the time, in the magazines, in Hollywood movies and probably in your own circle of friends somewhere.

So the point here is, that no matter how complicated the relationship is right now, or how stagnant things are going, once you become the “right” women in the relationship to inspire commitment, then it will naturally come to you.

It’s basically the law of attraction.

You see, a man’s desire to commit, is directly proportionate to how much value you or the relationship adds to his life.

And a man’s commitment resistance will increase if he perceives less value in the relationship and less value in the woman he’s with.

You see, most men will have commitment resistance somewhere along the commitment path. That’s quite normal.

So it’s really your job as a woman, to overcome these barriers and help a man to lower his own commitment resistance. But to do that, you’ll need to understand a few things and build up certain skills.

You see, I really believe there’s really nothing more beautiful than a heartfelt marriage proposal. If you haven’t ever Youtubed “wedding proposals”, then I think you’ll really enjoy the hundreds of proposals that men have recorded.

Every time I watch these surprise marriage proposals, it gives me a natural excitement inside of me. So I really do recommend you sit down and watch some Youtube videos on marriage proposals.

But before you bounce off to watch those videos on Youtube, I suggest you thoroughly read the rest of this article.

The rest of this article will educate you on how to inspire your man to commit more of his attention, time and resources to you, and even inspire exclusivity and marriage.

It has been my pleasure preparing this article and I hope you enjoy reading it.

It is important for you to know what signs to look out for when your man isn’t planning to commit. Not only will this save you a bunch of your time and youth, but also save you the heartache, the heartbreak, the frustration and resentment that you will feel later on.

In fact, I believe you should ALWAYS be in tune with how much your man is committing to you and the relationship. Why’s that? Because commitment really isn’t a one time event, but something that is a promise forever.

So if he isn’t keeping that promise, then you want to know about it!

Here are some warning signs that your man won’t commit to you, or isn’t committing to you right now.

• He’s lost interest in spending quality time with you… but instead, he’d rather do his own thing over spending time with you.
• He never talks about being exclusive with you or has never planned to live under the same roof as you.
• He has never been interested in looking at engagement rings, or has never really thought about married life.
• He doesn’t like to have as much sex with you as he used to.
• He doesn’t desire you as much as he used to.
• He frequently forgets things that you tell him or things that you ask him to do.
• He has become less and less generous when it comes to his time, his attention and his money.
• He is interested in other women.
• He is going out late more often, and making excuses for them.
• He is becoming more elusive and it’s hard to know his whereabouts.
• The relationship feels like it’s not as close as it once was.
• He hasn’t got any plans for the future… either in his career or his relationship.

So if your man has exhibited any of these signs, (and the more signs, the worse things are…) then I suggest you pay your full attention to the rest of this article and learn what you can do about this.

First of all, let me tell you something important…

That’s right, women like yourself are ruining their own chances of marriage… and they aren’t even aware of it.

Have you ever sat by your phone or called him repeatedly… when you were not sure what he was up to?

Have you given up parts of your own life, just so that you could spend time with him?

You see, mistakes like these are commonly made by women (even though these women have great intentions…), and they are destroying any chance of having their man commit to them at the level they want.

Let me explain…

Commitment to a woman is not the same thing as commitment to a man.

Commitment to a man can sometimes feel more like a ball and chain, or a burden on his life. It’s just another responsibility, and another obligation that he has to fulfill in his day to day life.

In fact, there are only a few reasons why a man would naturally want to commit to a woman. (And believe it or not, sex is NOT one of those reasons. Sex can be oftentimes cheap and readily available)

Men commit to women, not because of logical reasons. They rarely ever logically make that decision and weigh up the pros and cons of commitment. This is because commitment is an emotional decision for the man, not a logical decision.

He has to feel strongly and positively about commitment emotionally, which will then inspire him to take action to take the relationship to the next level.

But before I go on about what would make a man commit himself, and his life to you, let’s talk about why he ISN’T doing so right now. (In fact, about 90% of women routinely make these mistakes and they are literally killing your chances of having a true commitment from your man!)

If your man isn’t fully committed to you right now, it’s because he has certain resistance to committing to you. This resistance may or may not be logical, but it’s there. So if you don’t overcome this resistance to commitment, you will never have the emotionally rich, fulfilling relationship that you really want and deserve.

Here’s the top 3 reasons why your man is not committing right now.

Fear of loss of freedom. For most men, the day they commit fully to a woman (whether that is marriage, exclusivity or something else), is the day they lose their freedom.

If you just want to think this is childish, then stop reading.

However, if you want to understand this, let me explain. Freedom is at the heart of being a masculine man. Many men feel that if they are constrained, then they are not really a man; more so a pussy.

This doesn’t mean it makes logical sense, it’s just the truth. Men have fought for freedom for as long as we have inhabited the Earth.

And because in our society, the boundaries between men and women have blurred over the years… the majority of women simply don’t understand men. This means there’s a much lower chance of most men going into a commitment with a woman without feeling like he’s going to lose a lot more than he will gain. So if committing to a man feels like he is going to lose that feeling of being a man, then there’s no way he’s going to commit to you.

By the way, it’s not just a matter of “letting him go out” or “letting him do whatever he wants” – this is small thinking. Most women simply don’t understand what freedom looks like to a man. There is a lot more depth to feeling free and feeling like a man (the core of who he is) than just being able to “go out” and “do whatever he wants”.

Low-value women.

Another reason why men find it hard to commit is simply because there are far too many low-value women out there. A low value woman is a woman who firstly – has little value within herself and therefore gives off a bad vibe that scares a man away, and a low value woman is a woman who gives what she THINKS a man SHOULD be given, not what is truly valuable to a man.

What is valuable to women in a relationship is completely different to what is valuable to a man.

I’ll say it again.

What is valuable to women in a relationship is completely different to what is valuable to a man.

So what you really need to do is become a high value woman by understanding the core of how men work, and how they have evolved over thousands of years to become who they are today.

So what you really need to be is a woman who is SO valuable to him, that he wouldn’t feel any loss or opportunity cost by choosing to be with you.

For every commitment a man makes, (and every commitment you make as a woman!) there is an opportunity cost.

See, to men, most women just aren’t worth the time, energy, resources, attention and commitment of marriage or exclusivity. Why would they commit when they don’t feel like they’re truly getting what they need or want in return?

Here’s the key: Most men simply have no idea what they really want until it shows up in front of them, because a lot of what they want to be made to feel by a woman are things they simply cannot communicate! (Have you noticed men don’t like to TALK and discuss, or work out their feelings as much as women do?)

And even though every man will have his preferences – there are still all-round, general traits in a woman that make her universally valuable to men! And it has nothing to do with how you look.

So you really have to be the kind of woman who knows and understands men. When you understand what they truly want and why they find it so HARD to commit, then you have a whole lot more power not only over other women, but you have a whole lot of power for the rest of your life!

Just as a side note: men are actually looking for that special, wonderful woman as much as you are looking for that ideal man. If you think men just want to have sex and sleep around and not commit because they are “commitment-phobes”, you’re misunderstanding men, and completely missing the point.

See, once men they find her – that special, wonderful woman, they are not likely to let her go. Because a woman like this is so incredibly rare. Once he realizes that you are not like most women who completely don’t understand men, he’ll stick to you like glue.

He fears that he won’t be able to make you happy.

If you are like most women, you would have absolutely no idea the desire (and sometimes, pressure) that men feel on a daily (even hourly) basis to be a good provider. You would just assume that the same kind of perceived pressures exist for men and women.

Yes, women have a lot of pressures, too. Sometimes even more than men, however, what I am talking about is not the pressures themselves – but the perception of pressure, and the underlying expectation men feel there is upon them to provide.

If he is not a good provider, he’s pretty much useless as a man. Most men take a full commitment very seriously. If he feels like he won’t be able to make you happy, then it will make his job living life much harder.

Most men would rather be alone than be with a woman whom they feel they can’t make happy. It’s not just about providing in terms of financial resources (though that’s a large part of it) – it’s about him feeling like you will actually let him make you happy.

If you are not open to him, and you make it impossible for him to make you happy (many women do this, as surprising as that may be to you!) then he’d going to run, or at the very least – pull away emotionally.

For most men, if he can make his woman happy, then he’s successful (at least in that area of his life), and that feeling helps him a lot in other areas of life as well.

By the way, your job as a woman is not to ‘let him know that he doesn’t need to feel pressured’, because that, again, is taking away the essence of what makes him a masculine man. Your job is to understand it, and act from that understanding, which is something that I will be teaching you later on.

As most of us women know intuitively… time is ticking.

Every day that passes, is one more day that your relationship doesn’t feel secure to you.

Every day that passes, is your chances of having a secure, stable, reliable relationship slipping away.

You cannot change the fact that time is ticking, and will always tick away. The only thing you can change is your relationship, or change the status of your relationship and how you feel about that.

As women, if we don’t actually inspire our man to commit, then when will we ever have children and a loving family? Remember, our biological clock is completely different to a man’s biological clock.

A man could have children all the way to his seventies, but as a woman, everyday closer to 40 years of age means a fraction less chance of bearing children.

Imagine breaking up with your man… it may take you 2 or more years to settle down with someone else. You’ll have to go through the same process of… going on dates, getting to know each other, moving in together (if that’s what you want) and having him propose…get married and then you get to have babies.

How long would all that take realistically? I think 2 years is definitely an underestimate, especially for most of the population.

So it’s absolutely necessary that you at least learn what would make a man commit and what repels them from wanting to commit. Without that basic understanding, you will essentially live a life of uncertainty, having no security and stability in your relationship, and may end up being old, and alone one day.

(No one deserves to be old and alone, so don’t let that be you!)

Step 1 – You have to discover your man’s blueprint and understand his commitment resistance.

First of all, men and women are wired totally differently. And I mean… TOTALLY differently.

Studies have shown that women use both hemispheres of the brain, where as men only tend to use one side of their brain most of the time.

Studies have also shown that women use the white matter of their brain 6 times more than men, but on the other hand, men use their grey matter of their brain 5 times more than women.

So science has now proven that women and men actually operate totally differently, think differently and feel differently. What is common sense to a man, isn’t so common sense to a woman. And vice versa, what is common sense to a woman isn’t so common sense to a man.

If you think that by “thinking like a woman”, you can inspire your man to commit more to you… then you’ll be completely and utterly disappointed. You may even wait and wait and wait… until you realize he’s never really going to commit fully to you.

So you have to learn to understand what it’s like from a man’s perspective. What factors motivate men, and inspire them to want to commit to a woman?

What factors actually repel and turn men off wanting to commit to any woman, even some of the most physically beautiful women? (Just think about the fact that Halle Berry couldn’t keep any of her men committed to her, nor could Meg Ryan with Dennis Quaid)

You must understand what actually contributes to a man’s commitment resistance, and how you are actively contributing to that problem.

By knowing all this important knowledge from a MAN’s perspective, only then, can you start to learn how to inspire your man to commit more to you.

Step 2 – You have to actively create attraction that creates the fuel for the relationship.

Attraction is probably what brought you and your man together in the first place. It is the fuel that creates the excitement and the passion in any relationship.

Without attraction, you guys are just friends. Without attraction, your relationship tends to become meaningless. Without attraction, then chances of your man committing to you willingly, is slim to none.

I don’t say this to intentionally disappoint you, I say because it is the truth.

Men will commit their time, their attention, their resources, and even exclusivity and marriage, when they FEEL attraction for you. (That’s right, they have to feel the gut level attraction inside of themselves…even if they don’t verbalize it.)

But one of the biggest problems with relationships, is that attraction usually diminishes over time. So unless you know how to actively build attraction in your intimate relationship, then your relationship is probably more like a time bomb, waiting to explode and crush all your hopes.

So the knowledge and ability to build attraction in your relationship… is one of the most important and useful skills you can possibly have.

Step 3 – You have to establish a broadband connection with your man, so you understand him but more importantly, he understands you.

You must make your man feel deeply connected to you and your soul.

You must make your man feel like he could trust you, more so than anyone else.

Or else for him to make a giant leap of faith to commit to you, is very unlikely.

The truth is, commitment is a scary thing for men. It’s not always very obvious or even intuitive to us women, but most men are terrified of losing their freedom through this act of committing. So it is imperative that as a woman, we make our men feel connected to us and have trust in us.

The trust and deep connection that I’m talking about, is what glues the relationship together forever. Without this “relationship glue”, then anyone or anything could come between you and your man and break things apart.

So remember, if he doesn’t trust you and feel connected to your soul, then he most likely won’t take that leap of faith and commit to you.

Step 4 – You have to teach your man how to commit to YOU without him backing away or withdrawing.

Believe it or not, some men just don’t know how to commit.

You see, as women, most of us grew up thinking about marriage and thinking about having children. But a lot of men never think of these important milestones in life. This is especially true with men who were brought up mostly by their father.

Now I know there are men out there who are “relationship focused” and know when to take the next step, but I also know even more men who don’t have a clue. And this problem is made a lot worse because men have a different timeline to women.

Men can have babies up into their 70s, women can’t. It’s simply a fact of life.

That’s why you’ll find that a lot of men are just not in a hurry to get married and settle down.

So knowing this difference in timeline between men and women, you have to learn how to teach your man to commit without actually making him withdraw or back away.

Commitment can be a very sensitive topic for a lot of men out there, so you don’t want to be too “in your face” about the whole thing. You want to use subtle ways to subconsciously get your message across, without triggering his “defense” mechanisms.

Step 5 – You have to gradually escalate the commitment by taking small steps towards your relationship future.

Ok, this is the last step. We have to get into a habit of escalating the commitment.

It would be a totally stupid idea to ask someone seriously to marry you on the first date. As it would be, expecting all the commitment in the world from your man, without a history of small commitments in the past.

So this is what you have to do.

Build small commitments first. Make him feel like he’s invested in you and the relationship, and make him feel good about that.

That’s right, take baby steps first, and eventually the commitments would have escalated so high that he would want to spend the rest of his life with you.

It’s all about building this “commitment momentum”, and you do this by taking baby steps.

Just on another note, there’s no use asking for commitment in your relationship. It never works. It puts way too much pressure on the man, and in return, it actually works against you.

So your only option here is to escalate the commitment process using small increments. For example, you would want to go out to dinner before going on a weekend away, as you would want to spend a lot of time together before deciding to get married.

So these are the 5 essential steps to the commitment process, I know this has just been a brief outline, so…

I’ve recently put together a program called “Commitment Control” with my man, David. This program goes through in detail, all 5 steps of the commitment process.

We’re very proud of this program, and I’ve included David, because he gives us a unique man’s point of view that we cannot do without. So we’ve both put every ounce of our energy into creating a program that not only you will enjoy, but also learn more than you’ve ever learnt about dating, commitment, men and relationships.

Commitment Control is literally a step by step walk-through of everything you need to know and do, in order for you to inspire your man, to step up and commit more of his attention, time and resources to you. And even more importantly, inspire him to make that lifelong promise and commitment to you.

Here’s just a small sample of what you’ll learn…

• Learn the real psychology behind what makes a man want to commit his whole life to a woman compared to a man who has already made up his mind of “never going to commit”. (The interesting thing is, the same man could not want to commit to you but naturally want to commit to another woman, so you need to know why…)
• Learn about the deep psyche of the male brain and figure out what they really want and what they really need from a relationship. (The interesting thing is… what they want is not what they really need)
• You will discover the 3 things most women fail to give their man and why this causes men to want to run. (These are the 3 most important things that will determine whether a man commits to you or not!)
• You’ll learn how to overcome commitment resistance before it even comes up. (It’s very powerful to answer an objection before it is raised.)
• Learn 3 ways on how to build undeniable attraction in your relationship. (even if you think the attraction has permanently died for years!)
• Learn how to increase your value as a woman exponentially so that no one would ever take you for granted. (Nothing is worse than getting taken for granted. And nothing will kill your chances of a committed relationship than being a low value woman)
• Discover some simple yet powerful flirting techniques and attraction creators. (We’ll teach you what to do and what to say.)
• Learn the real truth behind light attraction and dark attraction. (and why you need BOTH to inspire more commitment and prevent your man from leaving)
• You’ll learn how to bring back the excitement in a stagnant relationship. (and inspire him to commit and take things to the next level)
• You’ll learn 3 ways to build a broadband connection with your man so that nothing can come between you two. (Eliminate the chance of another woman getting between you and your man to cause trouble.)
• Discover how to connect with a man’s heart and soul, (so that you become the only indispensable woman in his life)
• Learn how to instantly build trust and rapport with your man. (regardless of how long it’s been missing)
• You’ll learn how to use stories to teach a man to commit to you. (We’re going to show you how to do this properly without your man withdrawing or pulling back.)
• You’ll discover what types of stories to tell in order the plant the right idea in your man’s head about commitment.
• You’ll learn how to escalate the commitment naturally and have your man wanting to spend more time with you. (and enjoy that time spent with you!)
• You’ll learn 5 commitment tests to tell if a man likes you or not, if he would commit to you long term or not, and how committed he is to you. (These are simple and easy tests you can do anywhere anytime.)
• You’ll also learn how to use positive psychological associations to make it easy for a man to commit. (Remember commitment comes from an emotional choice, not an intellectual one!)
• You will learn the right way to go about exclusivity and marriage and avoid the dreaded “dating” zone (that leaves you unsecure and unsure about the future).

…and so much more…

Not everyone is invited to join Commitment Control.

There are 3 rules in which you must follow, in order to qualify for a membership within Commitment Control. NO Exceptions.

Rule 1, You have to forget what you’ve learnt about commitment, men and dating. There’s too much bad information out there in this area of dating. There are literally dozens of websites out there offering free information that is not only wrong, but also extremely harmful for your relationship.

So it’s important for me to just ask you – for the duration of this program, that you forget what you’ve learnt or read in the past about commitment, men, and dating. You can always go back to your old ways later on, but see Commitment Control as just another perspective. Try it out, and judge it by the results you get. You can always chew it and spit it out later on.

Rule 2, You have to be open minded enough to try out the suggestions and exercises included inside of Commitment Control. It’s hard to make progress in a relationship without taking any action. And if you take the same actions as you’ve always taken, then you’ll get the same results as you’ve always gotten.

We’ve given you action steps in Commitment Control because we know that these actions will help your relationship. Other women have used them before you with astonishing results. If you don’t take action, then you will be severely sabotaging your own relationship and the progress of commitment.

Rule 3, Do not purchase or work through any other relationship programs, whilst working on the content within Commitment Control. The reason is simple. I don’t want you to get mixed influences and become either overwhelmed or confused… It is so easy to become confused about dating and relationships altogether. I certainly don’t want to contribute to that chaos and add to your misunderstanding.

So keep away from other relationship advice, books or programs during the process of working through Commitment Control. And if you follow this, you will find yourself having a much better understanding of men and dating, and you probably wouldn’t want to go back to the “common and conventional” dating advice.

So if you’re willing to abide by these 3 simple rules, then please read on. If you’re not willing to stick by these rules, then this is probably not a program that you would want to be involved with. It’s time for you to move on.

For all the ladies who want to know more about Commitment Control, let me give you some more details!

Commitment Control is divided into four weeks.

The first week we’re going to discover what goes through a man’s mind when it comes to commitment. Why so many of them have commitment issues, and what it really takes to overcome their commitment resistance.

In the second week, we’ll be exclusively talking about how to build attraction. As you probably know by now, attraction is one of the MOST important elements of any successful relationship and the commitment process. So we’ll walk you through many ways to create or re-create the attraction inside your relationship to inspire your man’s commitment.

In the third week, we will talk about building connection in your relationship. This is the other factor that is going to inspire your man to step up and commit. Also we’ll walk you through how to test your man’s commitment and teach him to commit.

The last week is all about putting things together, and escalating the commitment from your man. This is where we put everything we’ve learnt and really give you some great methods and strategies to take small incremental steps towards a committed relationship.

I’ve included even more details below about each week, each module and each video…

Video 1 – Get Any Man to Commit

Learn why most women are using totally destructive methods to try to get commitment from their man and what you must NEVER do in your relationship.

Discover the biggest principle to follow to guarantee commitment from ANY man.

Video 2 – Inside a Man’s Head

Learn what men find the hardest to articulate to you, but couldn’t live without you knowing.

Discover the 3 masculine gifts that women routinely fail to give to their man and therefore lose the man’s love, respect and commitment.

Video 3 – The Gift of Missing You

Learn why men actually need distance in order for their hearts to grow fonder.

Discover how making yourself convenient will totally destroy the passion in your relationship and what you can do to make sure your man won’t take you for granted.

Video 4 – Overcoming Commitment Resistance

Discover the untold and hidden reasons why most men would never commit, and learn the step by step methods to overcome any resistance your man may have.

Learn the 2 most important “relationship ingredients” which would make any man 10 times more likely to commit to you instantly.

Plus, an extra “bonus” video in Week 1 that I won’t reveal to you right now…(this is a secret!)

So by the end of week 1, you will understand what men think about commitment, why they have such a resistance to it, and how you should approach the topic of commitment with your man. This will give you all the “ground work” that you need to proceed to week 2, where we will give fuel to the commitment process.

Video 1 – Building Attraction 101

Learn the 3 simple and essential “Attraction Ingredients” that you need to establish to start building unbelievable attraction from first eye contact.

Discover how to “throw pebbles” as a way to flirt and naturally build the strong feeling of desire and attraction in the men you communicate with.

Video 2 – Dark and Light Attraction

Learn how to make sure your man doesn’t feel like he is “missing out” by being in a relationship with you. (You need to embody both the dark and light parts of yourself)

Discover your own dark feminine, and make any man go wild in your presence and never want to choose anyone one else over you.

Video 3 – Building Higher Value

Learn the 3 questions to ask yourself at any given point to instantly transform yourself into a high value celebrity whom others want to be with and whom men want to be around.

Discover the 3 types of “value” you can establish within yourself to make yourself more attractive than any other woman you know or dream of, in the eyes of men.

Video 4 – Don’t Stay and Wait

Learn the worst thing you could do (that a lot of women are doing right now) to devalue yourself and inspire others to treat you as if you are absolutely worthless. (And what to do about it so that you don’t get taken for granted)

Discover what you really should be doing when your man seems like he’s not committing to you and not taking the relationship to the next level. (And it’s not sitting on the couch watching TV eating potato crisps!)

Plus, another extra “bonus” video in Week 2 that I won’t reveal to you right now! It’s a surprise!

By the end of the second week, you will have all the tools you need to start creating strong desire and strong attraction in almost every man you meet. Attraction is a huge part of getting any man to commit deeply so pay attention in week 2, all this is very important for you to inspire lifelong commitment.

Video 1 – Building Broadband Connection

Learn how to instantly build a “broadband” connection with anyone with one simple and easy technique, so that they are more likely to listen to you, feel connected to you and feel like you understand them.

Discover how to pick “uncommon commonalities” in your conversations to your man to instantly build rapport as if you were his long lost friend and lover.

Video 2 – The Relationship Superglue

Learn the “Superglue” that holds any relationship together no matter how many beautiful women come into his life, or how busy he gets with his work.

Discover how to establish honesty and integrity in your relationship so that your man will tell you exactly how he feels in that moment. (So you won’t ever have be in the ‘unknown’)

Video 3 – Testing Commitment

Learn how to test your man’s commitment to you so that you can always know if he will commit in the long run or just want you for the sex, and then disappear forever.

Discover the coffee test, the chopping board test, the handy man test + many more, so that you can instantly find out his intentions with you, no matter what stage of your relationship.

Video 4 – Teaching Your Man to Commit

Learn why and how you should ALWAYS teach a man to commit, so that you no longer leave the future of your relationship up to chance.  (And teach your man without having your man withdraw, pulling back or getting hot & cold)

Discover what types of stories to tell to your man so that his defenses will be down and he will realize that you are the only one he wants and he needs to commit more to you.

Plus of course, an extra “bonus” video in Week 3 that I won’t reveal, but you’ll find out what it is inside the member’s area!

So by the end of week 3, you will understand how to establish a strong sense of connection and trust in your relationship so that your man wouldn’t be so “scared” of commitment. Also you’ll learn how to “teach” your man to commit without withdrawal. This leads us to the last week, where everything will be put together for you.

Video 1 – How to Ask for Commitment

Learn the G-G-G-E method of escalating commitment in your relationship, naturally and smoothly even if he says “he’s not ready”.

Discover the 3 step process that you must always go through to ask for commitment from your man. (Don’t miss any of these steps because he will reject you if you miss even one of these steps!)

Video 2 – Commitment Associations

Learn how to get your man to associate happiness, joy and excitement with committing more to you. (There’s really nothing like having your man wanting to commit, instead of feeling like he has to…)

Discover the 3 relationship-strangling things you must NEVER do (or else you’ll be shooting yourself in the foot and totally damage your chances of getting that commitment!)

Video 3 – Strengthen the Bubble

Learn how to build such a deep connection that you and your man would feel like that you can never have a connection like that ever again with anyone else. (And effectively creating your own little bubble that no one else can break)

Discover the time warp technique, and many others to create a sense of closeness, passion and fun in your relationship. (These are proven psychological techniques that penetrate way beyond the conscious mind…)

Video 4 – Exclusivity and Marriage

Discover the exact blueprint and process you should go through in order to teach and inspire your man to become exclusive with you and commit his life to you.

Learn how to throw marriage related pebbles in order to get clear about his desires and reservations about engagement and marriage. (And really figure out what you have to do to overcome his commitment barriers)

Plus another bonus video this week, just waiting for you in the member’s area!

Oh… I forgot to mention a couple of other fantastic bonuses that I’ve included in the member’s area. I guess you’ll have to find out what they are!

Commitment Control is a 4 week coaching program. It is held within our Commitment Control top secret membership area.

When you sign up to Commitment Control, you will get your unique login details, and be taken to our secret membership area. There, you will have immediate access to the first week’s content.

Remember, this is designed to be a 4 week program. So you will only be given the first week’s content at the time you sign up.

I will send you an email to your email inbox 7 days after you sign up to tell you that the content for week 2 is ready. And then week 3 and week 4 and so forth.

The reason I’ve designed Commitment Control this way is because I know that if I just dumped all this information on you, you will easily become overwhelmed. So I’ve taken the liberty to sort it all out into a logical order, and deliver it all to you in bite-sized chunks.

Here is how the complete program is formatted.

Commitment Control is primarily a video based program. Every week, many videos are released and you’re welcome to either watch these videos in our membership area, or download them and watch them at your leisure. We have found that this is the best way to consume and digest the content.

These videos are also converted into MP3 audio files, so that you can download them and put onto your MP3 player to listen on the go. These MP3 audio files accompany every single video and are included in the members area free of charge.

Also, there are handouts for every single video, in the form of PDF downloads. These handouts summarize the video content and give you the information in a concise and easy to digest way.

Lastly, every video is meticulously transcribed, so if you prefer to read over watching videos or listening to audio, then you can download these transcriptions underneath every single video and read at your own pace.

So as you can probably tell, I took more time than necessary to make sure the whole course is prepared in a way that you can digest the information regardless of your learning style.

The reason I’ve decided to make this program into a membership area as opposed to something you get in the mail is three fold:

1. It keeps costs down so you won’t have to pay for a physical product. This saves you money.
2. Nobody (including me) ever sees your address so your identity and contact info is kept strictly confidential.
3. You can get this information immediately. Right now, in seconds.

But get this…

When you register, you instantly become a LIFE TIME MEMBER of Commitment Control. This means that you will receive any updates and future videos/articles that we post up in Commitment Control.

This is just another gesture to let you know that I care about all the women who come onto my site and I want to make sure that they receive the best information, best advice and knowledge in the world on dating, men and relationships.

Imagine this for a moment…

No more questioning where the relationship is going… now you have assurance, certainty and you can have comfort in that certainty.

No more worries about the future of the relationship, or perhaps the lack of a future…

No more humiliation in front of other women, who may actually be laughing behind your back… as to why you guys are “still just dating…?” or “seeing each other”.

No more of being unsure whether he’ll be there in the future or not… and instead, have him naturally wanting to make that promise to you. Inspire him to take the relationship to the next level, and give you more of himself than he’s ever given.

Imagine the warmth of assurance, the comfort of knowing that you are NOT wasting your time, and that your energy, youth and time is NOT being wasted.

Imagine having no regrets later on, knowing that you’ve made the right choice.

Think about it for a moment…what is all that worth to you?

What is it really going to cost you, if you don’t handle this part of your life right now?

Can you really put a price tag on the loss of your youth and your life? Can you really afford to lose years from the most precious resource we all have, our time?

Imagine, wasting one single whole year. The average salary for a year’s worth of work in the United States is around $45,000. Would you want to waste a whole year’s worth of salary?

What about your relationship? Would you waste a whole year of your life on a relationship that isn’t going anywhere?

I think I’ve made this very clear. You can NEVER put a price tag on your time, and your life.

So what if I said to you, I have a program that is specifically designed for you to take control and really inspire your man to commit to you, so that you can have assurance of where your relationship is heading. What would this be worth to you?

Would this be worth at least $5,000 to you to not waste your youth, your time and your energy?

Would it be worth at least $1,000 so that you won’t have to feel insecure in the relationship?

Would you pay $500 for something of this amount of value to your relationship right now?

…Well, here’s the good news.

Getting your relationship sorted right now, won’t cost you even close to that amount of money. Not even close!

Right now, I’m going to invite you into the membership area of Commitment Control, and have FULL access to all the content within, for only one payment of $299.

Now if you have been around me for a while, you’d know that I want to make every deal absolutely irresistible to you. So I have a sweet surprise for you, but I won’t tell you what it is until you click through to the next page…

Remember, you will always be protected by my 365 day money back guarantee.

Simply try the whole thing out, and at the end of the next whole YEAR, I want you to ask yourself… “Have I experienced everything Renee promised to me?”

Now I cannot predict your answer, only you can. But if the answer is not an absolute resounding “HELL YES!”, then I want you to ask for a refund.

You know me, I don’t like to mess around.

So if you decide for any reason at all, (or for no particular reason at all,) that this is not for you, then just ask for a refund. You can do this via email, our helpdesk or even call in. I don’t care how you do it, you just have to let me know! We will immediately give you a full refund and you won’t have to pay a dime.

This is like going to your favorite restaurant, ordering your favorite meal and if you don’t like the taste of it, then you can walk out without paying. This is probably the best, most RISK FREE deal you’ve ever seen.

In the many years I have been doing this, I have never allowed anyone to walk around claiming that they’ve wasted their money with me, and I’m not about to start.

By now you probably already know whether Commitment Control is right for you. But just in case you’re still not sure, then remember, this program is certainly NOT for you if…

You’re already in a deeply fulfilled relationship whereby your man gives you absolute certainty in where the relationship is going, he explicitly expresses his love for you and his intention to take care of you for life, and he actively shares all his attention, all his resources and his time with you.

If you are sure within yourself that your intimate relationship is progressing the way you want it to, (and that you’re not going to stay “boyfriend/girlfriend” for an eternity), then this program probably isn’t the choice for you.

On the other hand, if you’re unsure about your relationship, or you’re unsure what the future holds for you and your boyfriend, then I would totally suggest that you get started with Commitment Control today.

After all, time is ticking.

If your man isn’t giving you his promise to take care of you for life, then you need to start Commitment Control today to learn how to inspire him to make that promise. (For you and for himself.)

If your man isn’t giving you the full attention that you want or deserve, then you need to inspire him to commit more of his attention on a regular basis.

If your man isn’t giving you the time or the physical resources you need, then you NEED to inspire him to commit more. As I have described earlier, this is not to a way to manipulate him, but in order for a relationship to work, he needs to put in his share in to it.

And if he hasn’t taken the actions by now, you probably need to nudge him a little and inspire that next step from him.

If you’re at all skeptical about this, I understand. You have every right to be.

I’ve seen the garbage that’s being sold out there on the Internet. – Most of it is pure rubbish. In fact, most of the advice out there is simply to manipulate men into giving you something, but in the long run, men will get sick and tired of being used and manipulated that they’ll leave the relationship bitter.

Commitment Control is different. This is the real deal, no B.S. advice, just real and proven strategies to help you inspire your man to take the next step in your relationship.

And of course, shift all the risk on me, (as it should be), and test this program out for 365 days. You really have nothing to lose.

Click here to place your secure order and you can have complete access to this course in only 2 minutes.

Again, thank you for taking the time out of your busy day to learn about this. If you have any questions at all, or any problems, you can contact me via my helpdesk. (Click here for the help desk)

I look forward to hearing all the great results you achieve and also look forward to helping you in your love life for years to come!

So regardless of whether you try Commitment Control or not, I wish you the best of luck in your life and relationships for the future.

I look forward to hearing all the wonderful news you will have after this program and also look forward to helping you in your love life for years to come!

P.S. Just woman to woman for a moment, I know that you’re probably feeling like time is ticking and you’re not getting any younger. I totally understand.

P.P.S. Just remember, I want to take all your risk out of trying out Commitment Control. You will be protected by my “Raving Fan” Guarantee! I know it’s a fantastic program, and I want you to think so too. If you’re not a raving fan by the end of the program, then you’ll get your money back! I insist on it.